ini pidato karangan Miss Intaniah :) My beloved teacher

       “ I Love you so much”, “you are my everything”. Have you heard the word or have you said them to a boy or a girl of your neighbor or schoolmate. I am sure some of people in this room have  heard or said these words, including me. Em, the words are magic in a process that everyone like to say it “Dating”. Well, Dating is introducing process in the opposite sex which based on mutual love. For most of people, Dating is an important process before we decide with whom we spend our life in the future. But, what happen if “Dating” is done by an only twelve to seventeen girls or boy that we know still in the school age.

        At the begining the effect could be seen by the lake of motivation in students to study because they just spend most of their time to texting, chatting in whole night. So they come to class with fatigue the lessons and the school are not interesting anymore. In their mind just want to show their interest toward the partners openly, without hesitation. One boy pick the girl up to school and go home late for the camouflage,  reasons, such as : do a group work, take ex-kul program etc. But they go to watch movie, stroll in a mall etc.

        Next, a girl and a boy of teens cooked be just in the crowded place where they are watched of many people but as the last time, they feel those place are not privacy enough for them to express their love to their couple.

        Finally, they try to find out the lonely place and of course, no one watch what they have done. That is the problem arise, commonly in a school age, the teenagers don’t have the awareness of the consequence of their doing, they just feel that how much they love each other, how deep they must express it to the partner.  Then, they do physical contact that will be off-limits.

        On the other hand, sometimes the dating would be a motivation to encourage the students in school, they don’t want to show their weakness in front of their partner. Whether in physic performance  or in academic performance. So they try hard to be the best in order to make her boyfriend or his girlfriend more admire him/her.

        Considering the facts above, I think Dating in school age has many ad effects rather than positive values because based on the facts, of 100 cases of dating in school age, may be 10% of them leading a healthy dating and success in study the vest of them are creating an instant mom and dad.